Do I need a contract when I hire a nanny?
No, but it's a good idea to go through the process of drawing one up. If you're an easygoing type and your nanny seems agreeable, you might not want to bother with writing a formal agreement that could bring prickly issues to the surface. But you and your nanny (and your partner, if you have one) really should have a conversation about the ground rules of your arrangement, and setting them down in a contract forces you to clarify them. Having a written contract also offers guidance if a problem crops up: You can refer to it as you and your nanny try to resolve the issue.
What should a contract cover?
Anything and everything related to your nanny's job -- no detail is too small. If you're providing room and board, for example, you may want to pay for the nanny's landline but not for long-distance charges. You also may want to pay for a cell phone for her so you can reach her in the park (unlimited minutes is best). You should spell out any benefits, such as holidays, personal days, and sick days. You're not obligated to pay your nanny for days off, but it's only fair to do so; after all, most of us feel more positive about our employers if we have such benefits.
Your contract should have information on:
How do I draw up an agreement?
Although you may think of a contract as a daunting legal document, writing one is pretty straightforward as long as you think through what to include. You can use the categories above and add others that apply to your situation. If you like, you can have a lawyer review the agreement when you're done.
Make sure both you and your nanny sign and date the contract. Each of you should keep a copy. If you make minor changes (for example, you agree that she'll end her day at five o'clock instead of six), you both should initial the amendments and each get a fresh copy.
You may want to include a clause that you and your nanny will revisit the contract on a certain date (a one-year anniversary works well). When that time comes, the two of you will discuss anything either of you wants to alter. Of course, you'll have to redo the agreement sooner if there's a major change in your household, such as a new baby, or in your work schedule, such as longer hours at the office.
How do I make the contract binding?
As with any employment agreement, a nanny contract is hard to enforce. Never count on being able to do so. But having worked out so many details ahead of time, you're far more likely to enjoy a smooth relationship with your nanny.
References
Robert H. Pantell M.D., James F. Fries M.D., Donald M. Vickery M.D., Taking Care of Your Child: A Parent's Illustrated Guide to Complete Medical Care. Da Capo Press.
Nemours Foundation, KidsHealth.org. Choosing Child Care. http://kidshealth.org/parent/positive/family/child...
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